God has not called us to judge them. He has, however, called us to love them. Hebrews 5:13 says “Anyone who lives on milk, being still an infant, is not acquainted with the teaching about righteousness” (NIV). When we love the new Christian, it still isn’t up to us to decide when they actually begin to get some “righteousness.” Instead, we are to work alongside them, demonstrating God’s love in every action towards them. We are to be their brothers and sisters. We are to be their friends.
I wasn’t privileged to be brought up in church. I know I had many rough edges when I was in my 20’s and 30’s. Mentoring and discipling weren’t terms we tossed around in my younger days; the older women of Northside and Cave Springs Missionary Baptist just knew instinctively how to love me. I am sure I was a challenge to them. When I first began to teach, I taught alongside these spiritual giants as their “assistants.” They never formally mentored me, but these precious relationships were arranged by the Holy Spirit much like the women who met one another in the movie War Room.
The greatest of these women was my mother-in-law. She never once made me feel that she considered me unworthy to marry her son. My hair was dyed blonde, my skirts were short, and my laugh was loud. We often talked about Bible verses and how to raise a child to be godly. Twenty years later, when mentoring became the “new” thing, I realized she was my greatest mentor. She helped me make 1 Peter 2:2 a reality because she loved me. “Like newborn babies, crave pure spiritual milk, so that by it you may grow up in your salvation now that you have tasted that the Lord is good”. NIV